We compare what life brings us with our virtual idealization of our expectations; in our minds, we stubbornly reject the pure beauty of the unfoldment of Life, by insistently wanting to have control over how things should be and look. We want things and people to be exactly like our own virtual model of them, and we insist in forcing them into the cast of our expectations. Frustration and unhappiness prevails, until we finally surrender. This happens when we learn to fully appreciate the exquisite beauty of the imperfect…(read more)….